Can I Get A Coupon For A New Family
(I am not an “extreme couponer,” but I do shop the bargains and do what I can to get the most for my money. My husband works full time, but I am disabled so I’m not working. I don’t receive government assistance because my husband makes “too much,” so, between my specialist medical bills and our regular living expenses, we have to stretch every dollar as far as we can. One evening, my husband’s brother and his wife — “Brother” and “Wife” for simplicity — are over for dinner with their seven-month-old son. I just went shopping, so our cupboards are pleasantly full.)
Wife: “How do you afford all this food? [Brother] and I both work full time and we could never afford all this!”
Me: “Well, [Store] had a double coupon day, plus some sales and—“
Wife: “You coupon? Like, serious couponing?”
Me: “Well, I use them.”
Brother: *scoffs* “That’s embarrassing.”
Me: “Why?”
Brother: “I don’t know. I guess it could be worse. It’s not like you’re on food stamps, right?”
Me: “We’re not, but that’s not shameful, either.”
Brother: “I couldn’t show my face at the grocery store if [Wife] used coupons like that. Could you imagine handing over a ton of coupons like, ‘Here, give me money!’?” *laughs*
Me: “You’d hide if your wife saved you money?”
Brother: “Coupons are for poor people.”
Husband: “Okay, then we’re poor. But our poor a**es can afford all this food.”
Wife: “Don’t swear in front of [Son]!”
Me: “How can you be so closed-minded? At my birthday at [Restaurant], you screamed at the waiter because he charged you for a second plate of nachos.”
Wife: “It should have been free!”
Me: “You ordered two! Why would the second be free?”
Wife: “Because there weren’t enough chips in the first one!” *pauses* “Besides, you don’t have kids to provide for! Kids are expensive!”
Me: “Did you know they make coupons for condoms, too?”
(At this point, my in-laws suddenly remembered they had somewhere else to be and left. It’s worth noting that neither of them work low-paying jobs; one is a doctor, and the other is a CEO of a large company. I was surprised that a couple who would complain about a $7 plate of nachos would act that way about saving money. I could have shown them some great deals on baby supplies if they’d stayed!)