Some Parents Have The Weirdest Priorities
I once worked for a telephone service that took calls for a number of private doctor’s offices. We would take calls that came in outside of office hours and send a message to the doctor, who could then prioritize. We were also instructed to tell anyone calling in with an emergency to call emergency services for immediate help.
We have public healthcare in Sweden, which is available for everyone to use, but you can also choose to pay for private healthcare if you can afford it. This caller definitely had the money and the self-entitlement that came with it.
Caller: “Hello, I need the doctor to come right away. it’s an emergency.”
Me: “The doctor doesn’t make house calls. If it’s a medical emergency, you need to go to the emergency room or call 112 (the Swedish emergency number).”
Caller: “My son is having an allergic reaction. I need to talk to the doctor now.”
Me: “The doctor isn’t in right now. I repeat, you need to take your child to the ER or call 112, right away.”
Caller: “You listen to me. I’m not paying all this money for private healthcare and not getting help when I need it! Get me [Doctor] on the line, right now!”
Me: “He will tell you to go to the ER!”
Caller: “I’m not going to spend the night at a public hospital. I pay for private healthcare, and I will have private healthcare!”
I knew what the answer would be, but just to cover my own a**, I tried to get hold of [Doctor]. He picked up, in the middle of dinner, not very happy.
Me: “Hi, sorry I’m calling so late. I have [Caller] on the line, and she’s requesting to talk to you because her child is having an allergic reaction.”
Doctor: “What? She’s crazy! She doesn’t need to talk to me; she needs to go to the ER!”
Me: “I’ve told her that. Repeatedly.”
Doctor: *In the coldest, angriest voice imaginable* “Transfer her over.”
I wish I could have overheard that conversation. Yep. The lady would rather risk her child’s life than be forced to use — gasp! — public healthcare.
I don’t know exactly what happened after that, but at least the kid was fine in the end, and I believe [Doctor] reported the incident to Social Services.