It’s the final day of tax season. To cover a shortfall, I’m working at two offices in one day. Due to a client going over and a huge traffic jam, I am late to arrive at the second office — by five minutes. I’m scheduled to be there at 3:00, and I park the car at 3:06.
Upon opening the door, I’m confronted by a big guy. I’m a short woman, not very big.
He has a large briefcase full of documents. I apologize for being late, and he starts complaining about it and chewing me out. He keeps escalating; at first, it’s in a normal tone of voice, but it keeps getting louder and louder. At first, I’m apologetic, but as he goes on and on, I ask him:
Me: “Do you want to get your taxes done or would you prefer to complain about my timeliness?”
He calls me a “worthless b****” and starts getting downright nasty. It’s now 3:20, and our appointments are only an hour long, anyway.
Me: “Get out.”
He demands my card so he can complain about me to corporate. I take my cards, put them in my desk, and lock it.
Me: “No. I refuse to tell you my name. You have treated me with nothing but disrespect since I arrived. And with how long you’ve gone on to complain about my being late, we are now even later. Even if we started doing your taxes right this second, they would not be done before the next appointment.”
He practically turns bright purple in anger. Now he’s yelling loudly enough that he’s probably hurting his throat. I’m learning all sorts of new swear words. But that’s okay; I’m done with him. I just smile and wait for him to leave.
My coworker, a large man, comes tearing into the office and shouts at him to leave now. When the man demands that [Coworker] give him my card to complain to corporate, [Coworker] hands the man HIS card.
Coworker: “Complain about me. Now get the f*** out the door before we call the cops. You are officially trespassing.”
The man took a step back… and [Coworker] took a step forward. The man kept yelling, and [Coworker] yelled back, and each time the man took a step back from the force of [Coworker]’s shouts, [Coworker] took a step forward until he’d herded the man to the door. [Coworker] pointedly opened the door, practically shoved the man out, closed the door, and locked it.
Corporate did call us about the chain of events later, but when we explained what happened, they just shrugged and said, “Couldn’t be helped. We don’t condone that behavior, but it was probably necessary,” and we didn’t get written up.