Unfiltered Story #249580
I’m interning at a rental company for sound and light equipment but lets say i’m not having a good time there. The two other interns there have repeatedly called me fat cow and lazy pig, i’m left alone in the shop regularly (which is illigal), asked to work 12+ hours with no notice up front (again illigal) and barely get any info on what to do. If I happen to now know something (i’m here to learn, am I?) i’m called stupid to my face. It all ended with an argument with my supervisor, in which I asked him “Do I still have the right to stand up for myself or what?” to which he replied “No you don’t, and if you don’t like it you can f*** off.” In response I did indeed f*** off.
But that supervisor wasn’t even my boss. The owner was. He was on vacation when the fight happened and when he got back, he summoned me to his office. In the mean time I had found another place to finish my internship at the other side of the country, near where my (now ex) BF lived. I make the two hour travel to see what he has to say and try to finish things in a proper way for myself too.
Sidenote: I have a past of trying new college majors for several times, and due to private circumstances, mostly failed those attempts. It’s in my resumé as well, hence the owner knows about it.
owner: “Well now that you are here, lets bring (supervisor) in to hear his part of the story. According to him you just left with no reason.”
me: “I’m didn’t travel two hours by train all the way here for a who-said-what argument, so no, please let him out of this. And since he has been your trusted employee for year anyway, i’m sure you believe his side no matter what I say. But I told you I didn’t leave just like that. I left because I felt I was treated like scum, and I don’t have to take that.”
Owner: *condensedingly* “I hate your attitude! No wonder you failed miserably at all those other majors. I’m not surprised you get spat out everywhere you go!”
me: *furious* “I don’t think you have the right to talk about me like that! That’s attacking me at a personal level, and I DO NOT tolerate that! What happened in my past is none of your bussiness and I can’t understand the nerve you have even mentioning it. And honestly, I’m going to do my best to make sure no student of my school is interning here ever again! They deserve better.”
I left his office and thought that was the end of it. I get a call from my class mentor who wants to have a talk.
My mentor was a teacher from the first year and I really liked him before, he was one of the best teachers I ever had. Up till the following event:
Mentor: “(owner) has called me and told me that you said to him that you are going to ensure that no one from this school will ever intern at his company ever again. Did you indeed say that?”
me: “Yes I did. I don’t want anyone to go trough what I have been over there.”
Mentor’s demeanor went from calm to absolutely raged within seconds. He starts screaming rather than talking.
mentor: “You had ZERO right to make that claim! Who do you think you are! I’m so mad at you! You are making us lose valuable contacts!”
I don’t do well with men screaming at me, lets put that up front. I’m stunned and near tears. I manage to compose myself enough to explain myself.
me: “Believe me, you didn’t want that guy as a contact. He berated me with every chance he got and, talking about thingsIi should have not said: I can name a few things that HE better shouldn’t have said. I stood up for myself.”
mentor: “I don’t care what he said or didn’t. YOU should have known your place! You don’t talk like that to someone higher in rank than you!”
me: “HE shouldn’t have treated me like scum. He gives me sh*t, he can expect sh*t back!”
This went back and forth – not only that day, but for the remainder of the school year. My mentor – once a very caring and supportive teacher – now deemed me ”too unruly to work with.” He went so far to try to get me off the school program. Luckily the school’s confidential advisor, the administrations lady and the school’s technical assisant who I interned under the year after – those three for crying out loud – made every effort to make me stay. I owe them a lot – contrary to the mentor who lost my respect for good.