Differences Are Celebrated
(I grew up in a fairly small town, and all through high school, I worked at a local farm, selling produce at farmer’s markets and roadside stands. It’s only a few days before I leave for college in a much larger city, and I’m worrying about how much it’ll cost to live there, when one of my favorite customers comes up. I suspect he has some sort of developmental delay or had an accident or something, since his speech patterns tend to be very halting and he has trouble focusing his eyes, but he’s always polite and lovely and a pleasure to talk to, so I don’t think much of it. We’re chatting as he chooses what he wants, about $10 worth of produce, and he hands me a twenty-dollar bill.)
Customer: “Do you have singles?”
Me: “Unfortunately, no; it was a busy day today. Are two fives okay?”
Customer: *grinning* “Two fives are fine.”
(I give him his change, and he immediately hands one of the fives back to me.)
Customer: “This is for you. You’re always so friendly and polite when I come here. You don’t make me feel bad, or try to hurry me through what I’m saying. I know you’re leaving soon, and this is my way of saying thank you.”
Me: “You really don’t have to. You’re always so nice; I enjoy it when you come by!”
Customer: “Please, take it. I love coming here; you never make me feel different, or bad. Have a great time at college, and thank you!”
(I’m almost in tears by this point, and I can hardly get out a ‘thank you’ as he collects his vegetables and gives me one last smile. I’ve only seen him a couple times since then, but his kindness made a stressful time so much better!)