My boyfriend and I were only able to see each other once between mid-November and Christmas due to vigilance about the COVID pandemic and wanting to make sure we quarantined before seeing our families. While we’re together, he checks the tracking information on the two presents he’s bought me for Christmas, only to discover that one of the items, despite being purchased on December 5th, is not scheduled to arrive until late January/early February. He’s very embarrassed by this, as the other gift won’t arrive in time for him to give it to me before we head home either, but I joke that by that time it may as well be a Valentine’s day present.
In a family video chat on Christmas where we’re discussing how long various presents took to arrive various places, I mentioned offhand how my boyfriend’s present wasn’t going to be coming for another month. When I mentioned to him that I had shared this story, his response was, “Um…I hope no one in your family is curious about what it is!” This clued me into the fact that this present was something of a sexual nature.
Fast-forward to Valentine’s day weekend…the predicted delivery window has come and gone. The week before he got a message that it was “out for delivery,” followed immediately by a message saying it would be late, with no other explanation. By this point we’re both convinced he fell victim to a scam listing on Amazon and he has cancelled the order. We go away to his family’s cabin for Valentine’s weekend and I ask if I get to know what the gift was since by this point it’s clear I won’t actually get it. He tells me it was meant to be some rope in my favorite color, as we enjoy light bondage play. I tell him a local, reputable place he can get something like that from next time instead of Amazon and we don’t think any more of it.
Then, despite him cancelling the order, the package finally arrives the next week! I go over to his place on the weekend, we start getting intimate, and he asks if I want to try out my new present. I say yes, of course, so he hands me the package (which he had meant to open and wrap for me but didn’t get around to, so it’s still in its shipping packaging). I open and start to unwrap it, and I can already see that the color isn’t right, but I don’t have my glasses on and think maybe they just messed that up. Then we look closer and realize they did /not/ ship us fun-colored bondage rope, but instead an inflatable butt plug! That is not something either of us is interested in. I started laughing but he was FURIOUS (and even more embarrassed, as he later told me)–apologizing over and over, assuring me that wasn’t what he had bought. I told him it was ok and tried to get him to come back to bed, his immediate response was “It’s NOT okay!” Eventually he calmed down (after cathartically throwing it away) and came back to bed. Later I pulled it out of the trash–it was still wrapped, and I’m not a wasteful person so it seemed like a shame to throw it away. I thought we might still be able to use it for /something./ But we determined that no, this wasn’t going to work for us, and we did end up tossing it. I felt bad, but you can’t exactly post on Facebook “Hey, [boyfriend] and I got an inflatable butt plug by accident, does anybody want it?” I tried to get him to return it but he said it wasn’t worth it. He at least reported the seller, though. In the end, we waited more than 3 months for the wrong thing to arrive. We laugh about it now, but he’s still embarrassed about it!