You Will A-Dress Me As “Ma’am”
(My friend and I are both transgender. Every month, we go to the theater together, and we always eat at a certain fancy restaurant beforehand. We have a very sweet regular waitress who has addressed us as women from the start. One night, an elderly gentleman at a nearby table calls our waitress over.)
Elderly Man: “You realize that those two are men, right? Why are you calling them ‘ma’am’?”
Waitress: “I don’t know what you’re talking about, sir.”
Elderly Man: *louder* “They’re men in dresses! They may be queer, but you should still call them ‘sir.’”
Waitress: “They look like ladies to me, sir. And they’ve never told me otherwise.”
(Later:)
Waitress: “So, how is everything, ladies?”
Me: “It’s wonderful, and thank you for what you said to that man.”
Waitress: *blushing* “I don’t know what you’re talking about, ma’am.”
(We left a huge tip that night.)
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