Unfiltered Story #223785
(I’m a trans woman. It’s worth noting that Michigan has no laws mandating what sort of restroom anyone has to use; at worst, entering the wrong restroom and causing a disturbance might get you charged with disturbing the peace. So trans people are not discriminated against. I begin checking out two customers: Customer #1, a man, and Customer #2, obviously his wife. After a short while…)
Customer #1: So, are transgenders allowed in the bathroom now?
(The question is said like he has just learned something which surprises him. It definitely catches me off-guard, and at first I wonder if he has figured out that I’m trans (it’s not terribly obvious unless you look closely), but decide to just answer the question in a way that won’t out mysef.)
Me: Er… well, Michigan doesn’t have any law regarding that, and I’ve not heard of any [store] policy against that, so I would assume so.
(Customer #1 seems to have a follow-up, but Customer #2 intervenes.)
Customer #2: *To Customer #1* It’s fine. I was just surprised, is all.
(So I take it that someone who was obviously trans, or who they figured out was trans, was in the woman’s restroom at the same time as Customer #2. I have no idea whether it was me or someone else; it could have been me, since I did use the restroom earlier that day. I take no offense, but did he just assume that trans people were simply not allowed to use the restroom? How odd…)