The Seatbelt Was A Surprise Red Flag
I’m at a house party with some friends, and we’re running short on beer. One of the sober hosts whom I don’t know too well says they’re gonna make a beer run, and I offer to come with and help carry the beer.
We get in their car, and I put on my seatbelt.
Driver: “What are you doing?”
Me: “Putting on my seatbelt.”
Driver: “Are you trying to tell me something?”
Me: “I don’t know what you mean.”
Driver: “Are you saying I’m a bad driver?!”
Me: “I’ve never seen you drive.”
Driver: “So then how do you know I’m a bad driver?”
Me: “I don’t, but it’s not about that. What if someone else is a bad driver and they hit us?”
Driver: “Oh, like an Asian?”
I suddenly regretted volunteering to join in the beer run. I kept my seatbelt fastened there and back.