Dog Sitting Is Getting Tense
Recently, I have begun a dog walking and pet sitting business that I run out of my house with express permission from my landlord. I’ve worked with animals for years and I’m grateful to finally be able to do it for a halfway-decent living.
That being said, I’ve been MUCH busier than I anticipated, and as such, I’ve been a little stressed about over-extending myself. I even had a nightmare about forgetting that I had to watch a dog, and the dog was left alone at their house for several days. Even though it was just a nightmare, this prompted me to get more serious about my organization and scheduling so I wouldn’t miss ANYTHING. Nowadays, my schedule is rock solid and I’ve been super on top of it.
I only say that so you can understand the immense confusion I feel when my doorbell rings at 2:00 pm on Monday and I hear a dog barking outside. I get my dogs calmed down and answer the door. On my doorstep is an elderly woman, maybe eighty years old, holding a very cute West Highland Terrier.
I’m honestly so confused by her being there that my mouth does not form words. I just sort of stand there, opening and closing my mouth like a fish out of water, while my brain is just screaming, “YOU FORGOT! YOU FORGOT!”
After a moment, she graciously saves me from myself, and talks first.
Lady: “Hello, I’m [Lady], and I’m here to drop my dog off for boarding!”
At this point, I’m almost positive that my nightmares have literally come true and I have straight-up deleted a dog from my short-term memory. But as I’m racking my brain, I cannot remember EVER seeing this dog or woman before.
Me: “Hi… uh… Who is this little guy?”
Lady: “This is Chico. I was hoping to leave him with you for the weekend while I visit my grandson.”
Okay. “Hoping”. That’s an interesting word. Now I’m less anxious but more confused.
Me: “Okay? Have we spoken about Chico before?”
Lady: “Oh, no. But your neighbor, [Neighbor], said you watched dogs, so I just brought him over!”
OKAY. Now, this is making more sense. [Neighbor] was my previous neighbor who had recently moved out. I had watched her dogs dozens of times, and she was always very kind to give my name out to people who were looking for dog sitters. Sometimes, however, she did treat me as “on-call” in the sense that she would call me as she was pulling out of her driveway to tell me she was leaving for the weekend and I would need to watch the dogs. She would play it off like she was so frazzled and forgot, but it started to get old after the third or fourth time.
At this point, I have a little old lady with her energetic dog on my porch and still more questions than answers. I invite her in while I try to get to the bottom of it. Come to find out, the lady is a friend of [Neighbor]’s mother, whom I have never met. [Neighbor] had a couple of my business cards at her house, and apparently, the last time her mother was visiting, she took a couple of them to give to her friends. Apparently, [Neighbor] inherited her entitlement from her mother, as her mother told this lady I was available ANYTIME for dog sitting. Literally anytime.
Worse yet, because [Neighbor] was my next-door neighbor, her mom figured out my address and gave it to the lady. Because of that behavior, the lady had the impression that I was a dog boarding facility, and she was just as confused as I was to arrive at a normal-looking house.
After we got it all explained, the lady and I had a pretty big laugh about it. The lady was super apologetic and sweet, but I knew it really wasn’t her fault, so there was no harm done. She was just a sweet old lady who got a little confused.
Unfortunately, because I was already booked, I couldn’t watch Chico. But good news! The lady determined that she could just visit her grandson the next weekend, and I went ahead and booked her for it. Chico and my dogs had plenty of time to socialize while the lady and I were chatting, and they were becoming fast friends. I think I may have just fallen back into a great client.
Still, I was a little miffed, so I called [Neighbor] and told her to ask her mother to please not tell people that they can just come by “anytime”. [Neighbor] was legitimately confused as to why it was an issue. After a few minutes of going around in circles, I simply said I couldn’t watch any dogs that I didn’t know and left it at that.
While I wish that was the end of it, two days later, [Neighbor] called me.
Neighbor: “I’ve just left my house. Can you please watch the dogs?”
Me: *Gently* “You just moved three hours away. I’m no longer your neighbor.”
She just gave a half-hearted “Oh…” and hung up. God bless her.