I was selling some household items and agreed to do a public meet-up with someone outside a grocery store at 3:00 pm. I also needed groceries, so I did my shopping and was back in my car by 2:50. I messaged the buyer to describe my car and tell her where I was parked. She didn’t answer.
3:15 came and still no reply. I had eggs in the car and didn’t want to keep waiting and using my gas to keep the car cool.
Me: “Hey, if you’re not meeting up today, that’s fine. I just need to know. I have groceries in my car that need to get to the fridge.”
3:30 came and went. I saw that she had opened the message but hadn’t said anything.
Me: “We’re going to have to reschedule this. I need to go. Let me know when you will be available.”
I drove home — another fifteen-minute drive — and got my groceries put away.
At 5:45 that night, my phone went off.
Flaky Buyer: “Where are you?”
Me: “At home. We agreed to meet almost three hours ago, and you never showed up or reached out.”
Flaky Buyer: “Okay, I got busy. Life goes on. I’m going to [Location an hour from my house] right now. Meet me there.”
I may have considered this generous response if she hadn’t opened the messages hours earlier. It could be that she had a small child or someone else was using her phone, but the delay and the eventual reply were not helpful.
Me: “Sorry, I’m not available anymore today. We can meet up this Saturday.”
Flaky Buyer: “This is f****** bulls***!”
She marked my post as spam and blocked me. I reported her as a no-call, no-show and listed the items again. They sold within an hour, and the person actually showed up the next day to get them!