I’m a senior in high school. I’ve been in chorus since I was a freshman. We are having our annual Broadway-style revue, and everyone is running around like crazy backstage getting ready. There are several stage moms helping with makeup.
One of my friends warns me that one stage mom in particular is walking around with a tube of lipstick and putting it on the girls that she deems “not made up enough.” I have very sensitive skin, so I do my own makeup with my own products. I have done this every year with no issues.
I come out of the bathroom in full costume with several minutes to spare.
Stage Mom #1: “[My Name], you look so nice.”
Me: “Thank you, Mrs. [Stage Mom #1].”
Stage Mom #1: “What makeup brand do you use?”
Me: “[Brand known for sensitive skin].”
Stage Mom #1: “Really? I didn’t know it could look that nice. I’ll have to check into that for next year!”
I smile and thank her again. She walks off to help another kid with his costume.
I head back to my stuff to grab my water bottle when [Stage Mom #2] walks over with lipstick in hand. I don’t get along with her daughter, so she’s never been nice to me.
Stage Mom #2: “Are you wearing any lipstick?”
Me: “I have my own, thank you!”
Stage Mom #2: “[My Name], that is not enough lipstick.”
Me: “I’m going to add some more right before I go onstage. That way, it’s totally fresh.”
Stage Mom #2: “No, you’ll add some right now.”
She opens the lipstick and attempts to put it on me. I dodge out of the way.
Me: “I have my own!”
I reach into my bag and pull out my lipstick, along with my shimmer gloss.
Me: “I’m all set.”
Stage Mom #2: “No, you need this stuff.”
She comes at me with the lipstick again and I step back.
Me: “I’m not wearing that. One, that’s not my color. Two, I have sensitive skin and I can’t wear that brand. Three, you’ve been using that on everyone. That’s germy.”
Stage Mom #2: “You’re going to look washed out on stage. Stop being disrespectful and let me help you!”
She has a smug look on her face as she opens the lipstick again. In one smooth motion, I grab my makeup bag, step back, and bolt for the nearby single-stall bathroom. I lock the door in record time. [Stage Mom #2] bangs on the door.
Me: “Mrs. [Stage Mom #2], I am putting on my lipstick and more gloss.”
Stage Mom #2: “You’ll be sorry! Just wait until [Director] hears how disrespectful you are!”
She stomped off. I added more lip gloss and cautiously slipped out of the bathroom with just a minute to spare. Our number went well, and I did not get in trouble with our director. However, half the girls in the class ended up sick a couple of days later.