I work for a privately-owned franchise of a global sub sandwich chain. The owner of our restaurant is a woman, but her name is much more commonly used for men than for women. As a proud business owner in a small town, the owner has a sticker on the front door that says, “Proudly Owned and Operated by [Owner’s Full Name]”. She also takes absolutely no nonsense from problem customers, and she always has our backs. In short, she’s a great boss.
I’m helping at the counter one day, mostly running the register but sometimes doing veggies and sauces if things get busy. A man I’ve never seen before walks up to the front door, stands there for a moment clearly reading the owner’s name, and then walks in, gets a sandwich made, and gets to the register.
Me: “Would you like a meal today, sir, or just the sandwich?”
Man: “I’ll get the meal, and I know the owner. He said I could get this for free.”
Me: “I’m sorry, sir, but only the owner can authorize that, and she’s not here today. Would you like a meal or just the sandwich?”
Man: “Listen… This place is owned by [Owner’s Full Name], right? I’m his cousin, so he said I could get lunch on him when I’m in town. Are you going to follow his orders, or should I call him up myself?”
Me: “Sir, you need to listen carefully. Only our owner, [Owner’s Full Name] can authorize that, and she is not here today. Did you hear me that time?”
Man: “I’m going to call him and—”
Me: “No, you’re not going to call him. [Owner] is a woman and always has been. If you knew her at all — and especially if you were her cousin — you would know that. Now, would you like a meal or just the sandwich?”
The man gapes at me in confusion for a few seconds, and then, he finally catches on to what I am saying. He grumpily pays full price and sulks out the door.
When I tell our owner about it the next day, she laughs.
Owner: “Good job not letting him walk over you! The only time you should ever give anyone a ‘friends and family’ discount is when I am standing right there, in person, telling you it’s okay. Otherwise, you have my full permission to shut customers down however you need to. I’ll support you if a customer tries to complain.”
That kind of thing is why I enjoy working here.