In Competition, Positive Attitude Is Everything (And Nothing)
I’m volunteering as a referee for First Lego League, a competition for mostly middle-school-aged kids building Lego robots to complete various challenges on a table for points.
I try to make things fun for the kids as much as possible; I want the whole experience to be positive enough for the kids to come back next year even if they don’t have a perfect robot after all. We have to wait for all tables to set up before a match can begin, which gives me some time to talk with the kids.
Me: “I have a very important task for you all. They’re going to announce every team’s name before the match. When they say yours, I want you all to cheer louder than any of the other teams. Can you do that?”
Boy: “Yeah!”
The entire team is clearly the loudest and most energetic when their team name is called, with the first boy I talked to being the most energetic of his team.
Me: “You were definitely the loudest. Just for that, I’ll double your starting points.”
Boy: “Really?! He’s going to double it!”
Me: “Do you know what your starting points are?”
Boy: “No, but it’s double!”
Me: “You start with a zero…”
The boy doesn’t seem to hear me. He instead goes to try to tell one of the adults waiting back a little further back where we make coaches and parents wait that we are doubling their score.
Teammate: “I don’t think he’s listening anymore. At least he’s happy.”
We had to start the match about then, so I never did get to clarify things to the first kid. Hopefully, he wasn’t too disappointed when someone finally let him in on the joke.
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