This happens on my younger brother’s tenth birthday. My parents gather my entire family into the dining room after all of the party guests leave and sit seriously on the table.
Dad: “So, [Younger Brother], you’re ten now, so your mother and I have something important to tell you.”
Younger Brother: “What is it? Am I changing school?”
Mom: “No. You’re not actually our child. You’re adopted.”
Younger Brother & Me: “WHAT?!”
Everyone looks at me.
Me: “Oh, right. Sorry. I genuinely forgot that you were adopted.”
Older Brother: “Come on! You’re the one that wanted us to adopt [Younger Brother]. H***, you’re the one that named him!”
Me: “Like I said, I forgot. It’s been a decade.”
Younger Brother: *Teary-eyed* “So, it’s true, I’m not Mommy and Daddy’s child?”
Me: “Yeah. Sorry, [Younger Brother]. Mommy never gave birth to you, unlike me and [Older Brother]. But that doesn’t mean that she’s still not your mother.”
Everyone in room stares at me again
Older Brother: “[My Name], I’m adopted, as well. Remember?”
Younger Brother: “Yeah, even I know that.”
Me: *Sputtering* “Well, it’s been almost two decades by now!”
Younger Brother: *To me* “Are you adopted, as well?”
Me: “No. This time I’m absolutely certain.”
Mom: *Teasingly* “Yeah… about that…”
Me: *Annoyed tone* “Mommy!”
Mom: *Pouts* “Yeah. You’re mine. And the whole reason why I cannot have any more children. That’s why we adopted your brothers.”
Yeah. That was genuinely my fault. My birth was so traumatic that it rendered my mother infertile. Regardless, I still have two amazing brothers whom I love with all my heart. This wasn’t the first time I’d had to be reminded that my brothers aren’t biological and it wasn’t the last time, either. Regardless, I don’t care and neither do they. We’re family through and through. For now and forever.