Soft Toys And Soft Hearts
It’s the beginning of the academic year, and the university campus is crammed with new and returning students and their families. The staff is desperately multi-tasking to keep up with enquiries, complaints, and ongoing tasks. It’s chaos, but we love it; it’s always good to see the students back.
This year, among the new students is an autistic student who had their favourite soft toy with them. Unfortunately, they lost it in the madhouse of Freshers’ Fayre and were brought into the library to decompress in a calm space. This didn’t work; they were increasingly distressed by the loss and in full meltdown. Various library staff were dispatched to look for the toy with no result.
Then, University Security arrived on the scene. Security are big chaps with full gear (body cams and all), highly professional, and very experienced in keeping the peace.
[Security Guard #1] marches up to the distressed student.
Security Guard #1: “Now then, young man. I hear you’ve had a bit of a do.”
The student goes very quiet and their eyes go wide. They obviously think they’re in big trouble.
Security Guard #1: “We hear you’ve lost your friend. Well, maybe we can find a new friend for you”
[Security Guard #2] produced from behind his back a teddy bear, complete with a gown and a mortar board. The student looked bewildered, and the staff present all burst into tears. The student wasn’t sure what to make of this, but it did calm them for a bit, long enough for a very flustered member of library staff to dash in with the original lost toy, having found it on the way to their car. (They then had to dash back off again because they needed to pick up their child from school.)
We haven’t seen the student since, but we hope they think of the library as a safe space where they’re welcome and have learned how awesome our security staff are!