I’ve only just started working at a medical office, and it’s early 2022 when the global health crisis is still in full swing. As we’re a medical office, everyone is required to wear a mask, and for the first three months that I’m working at this job (and for six months prior to that), we have a National Guard presence in our lobby to ensure that everyone is aware of the masks and being screened for symptoms. Everyone gets a mask, everyone is told to wear a mask and how to wear it properly, and there are no exceptions, no exemptions, and no tolerance at all for backtalk: if you don’t wear your mask or wear it improperly, you’re out of there.
I’m working patient checkout when a patient comes up to my desk, and I notice that he is not wearing his mask properly at all: he’s pulled it down under his chin.
Me: “I can help you right here, sir. I just need you to put your mask up over your nose, please.”
Patient: “No.”
Me: “I’m sorry?”
Patient: “I can’t breathe if it’s over my nose.”
Me: “You’re still required to wear the mask, sir, as was explained when you entered the building. I just need you to put it up over your nose and I can check you out and get you on your way.”
Patient: “This is ridiculous. Just check me out.”
At this point, he’s raising his voice and getting animated, and I’m getting a little flustered because I’ve only been in this job for a few weeks and haven’t had any mask pushback yet.
Me: “Sir, it’s hospital policy and a requirement at you wear your mask properly. Please just put it up over your nose.”
Patient: “Where is it a requirement?”
Me: “What?”
Patient: “Show me where it’s written that I have to wear a mask!”
Like most medical facilities, we have many, MANY signs about mask usage… but they’re all at the CHECK-IN side of the office because it’s assumed that we won’t have these arguments when someone is checking OUT. At this point, my more experienced coworker comes over to assist.
Coworker: “Sir, it’s hospital policy, it’s office policy, and it’s posted on all the signs that you passed by when you came in.”
Patient: “No! I want to see where it’s written right now!”
Coworker: “We don’t have anything at this desk, sir, but—”
Patient: “THEN IT’S NOT THE POLICY!”
This goes back and forth for several minutes, with the patient getting more upset and irate as time goes by, drawing the attention of everyone else at the office (who are all wearing masks, of course). Finally, I say:
Me: “Sir, you can go ahead and leave. I’ll check you out of your appointment and call you about any kind of follow-up if needed.”
He leaves, grumbling the whole time, and my coworkers and I talk about it, confirming that I did everything right and remained polite. I check the appointment notes and, lo and behold, he needs a follow-up appointment, so I call him and set up the appointment. I finish with:
Me: “And by the way, sir, hospital policy is that you are required to wear a mask for the entire duration of your visit to our office.”
Patient: “Yeah, yeah.”
He hangs up without any kind of fight, but given his confrontational nature, I talk it over with our building administrator and we decide to have our hospital security department on site for his next visit; it’s one thing to shout at a checkout person and another to shout at a tough-looking security person.
Six weeks later, the patient’s appointment comes up and he comes through. Security, sadly, did not get the memo properly due to a reporting glitch, but as luck would have it, I’m working the check-out desk again! The patient completes his appointment and walks toward check-out. Of course — OF COURSE — he’s not wearing his mask, having tucked it under his chin. I smile at him — even though he can’t see it — and wave at him.
Me: “I can help you right here, sir! I just need you to put your mask up over your nose, please!”
Patient: “…forget it.”
And he left! He ended up having to come back three more times, and each time, security was properly on site to enforce procedure, but the patient absolutely refused to speak to me, even if he ended up having to wait ten minutes for the next representative to help him. But he wore his mask properly from then on, and I didn’t have to deal with him anymore, so I call that a win!
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