This happened many a year ago when I wore a dark blue mechanic’s style shirt on the daily for my tech job. I was on my lunch break and went to my local [Retail Chain] to pick up a new electronic gadget of some sort. I found a helpful fella in electronics, and together we walked to the case where they were kept under lock and key, and he began rifling through keys to open up the case for me.
Cue a random loud woman approaching the two of us. She was clearly speaking to me, in a very sassy tone.
Woman: “Hellooo… Are we on break, or… just standin’ there watching him work?”
Me: “Huh?”
Woman: “Does that really need the two of you there? Looks like he’s got it handled. If you’re done watching him work, I need help finding [list of stuff].”
Me: “I… What?”
Employee: “Ma’am, when I’m done serving this gentleman, I’ll be happy to help you with that.”
Woman: “Oh, no, I was talking to him, not you!”
She pointed at me as if proving a point.
Employee: “Yes, ma’am, that’s the gentleman I’m helping.” *To me* “I can ring you up for this right over here, sir.” *To the woman* “I’ll be with you in a moment, ma’am.”
Woman: “Oh, well… Why do you… You have a blue shirt…”
Me: “Yup! I sure do.”
The woman silently turned away, glaring at me angrily as if I had gravely offended her.
Me: *As I’m paying* “Wow… That was, uh… interesting…”
Employee: “Yeah, man… You got an undershirt under that blue button-up? You might want to take it off until you get back to your car. People aren’t too observant around here!”
Me: “It’s not even a vest, though.”
Employee: “Yup. Yet they’ll hesitantly ask me if I work here, and I’ve been wearing the vest for years!”
We had a good chuckle. I was so shocked at the woman’s immediate rude attitude that I couldn’t process a snarky comeback at the time. Seriously, why do people think it’s okay to be nasty?