“But Ya Gotta Know The Territory”
I had a friend from the USA visit me in Norway. On her first day here, we went out to a restaurant. We got entrees, dinner, dessert, and drinks. I had already told my friend I would pay.
We got the bill and both looked at it. The waiter went to go get the terminal so that I could pay with my credit card. How it worked at that restaurant was that you had to input the total amount to pay. It is not common to tip here. You might round up, but it’s definitely not expected to tip. I distinctly remember that our total was 1,871 NOK (~190 USD), so I figured I might as well just round up to 1,900 NOK (~192 USD).
When my friend saw that I only rounded up to 1,900 NOK, she immediately took the terminal from me.
Friend: “You can’t tip that little! What’s wrong with you? The waiters depend on tips!”
I mean, it’s not the best-paying job, but in which country is it? I just looked at her and said:
Me: “No.”
The waiter was right there and shot in:
Waitress: “We actually don’t. Most people I serve round up to the nearest five or ten, so she was actually quite generous.”
The strange thing is that I had even told her beforehand that tipping isn’t expected here. She told me later that she remembered that but didn’t believe it as I wasn’t a waitress myself.