A Lower Benchmark For Annoyance Than Others
(One sunny morning I have some time to kill before catching a train so decide to sit in the sun in a local park. There are many other people with the same idea so the park is reasonably crowded. There is a large curved bench, about six or seven metres long, with only one other person, a middle aged woman, sitting on it at one end. I sit on it in the middle so the sun is even on my back and begin to read my book. A couple of minutes later I begin to feel very uncomfortable and look up to see the other woman glaring at me. I am a good two or three metres away from her.)
Woman: *in a really aggrieved tone* “Why’d you sit there for?”
Me: “Oh, sorry.”
Woman: “You just had to sit there didn’t you and completely ruin my day.”
Me: “I didn’t realise.”
Woman: “No, obviously not!”
(Feeling really uncomfortable I got up and moved to the other end of the bench. Not two minutes later a businessman walked up and sat exactly where I had been and started to read his paper. I covertly watched the other woman, who just sat and glared at the man. He was completely oblivious, and ignored her. Eventually it got too much for the woman and she jumped up and stalked off in a huff. Luckily there was another small park bench where she could sit by herself. I hope someone explained to her why it’s not nice to hog public amenities…)