(There is a notice up in the back room for people to apply to a manager position. I am currently an associate, but I have been working at the company for a year while most other employees are brand new. I don’t want to become a manager, though, and the deadline passes with only new people applying. Two days past the deadline, the current manager pulls me aside.)
Manager: “Hey, [My Name], why didn’t you apply?”
Me: “Oh, I’m taking summer school and I’m worried about not being able to balance the two well.”
(She pulls me out for these talks for the next two days until she eventually convinces me I can do it. I submit my application, and two weeks later I get a phone call.)
Manager: “Hey, [My Name], we didn’t go with you for the manager position, but you can reapply in July.”
Me: “Oh, okay… Can I ask why? I mean, you asked me personally for two days to apply, so…”
Manager: “Well, we were worried you’d be so focused on school that you wouldn’t be able to give it your all at the store.”
Me: “Sure, that makes sense, but… I mean… when you asked me to apply, I told you I had summer school, yet you still asked me to apply.”
Manager: “Yeah, I guess I did… Oh, well, sorry about that.”
(I quit two months later because the new manager they hired who “had more time to focus on the store” ended up being a huge screw-up.)