A few years ago, I was hired at a large grocery store in the deli department. I was only a part-timer, but the established staff there were so welcoming and friendly, and I fit right in with my new team of coworkers.
One afternoon, when we were quite busy, I had a customer come up to our deli counter. She was well-dressed and maybe in her fifties. I immediately went over to serve her.
Me: “Hello! What can I get for you?”
Customer: “Oh, it’s fine, honey. I don’t need anything. I just need to tell [Supervisor] that I am here and going into the restroom for a couple of minutes. Could you let her know as soon as possible, please? It is very important!”
I was totally baffled as to why she needed my supervisor to know this.
Me: “Um… sure, I will tell her right now.”
The lady headed for the customer toilets.
[Supervisor] was busy with a customer, but I dutifully and politely interrupted, still baffled.
Me: “Sorry, [Supervisor], but there was a lady here just a moment ago who said it was extremely important to let you know that she has gone to use the restroom.”
Supervisor: “Great, [My Name]. Thank you for letting me know.”
She gave me no further explanation, and we went about our jobs.
A couple of days later, the lady customer once more came to our counter. This time, she spoke to my coworker who had worked here much longer than me. I overheard their interaction.
Customer: “Oh, hey there, [Coworker]. Just letting you know ‘The Usual’.” *Smiles* “Make sure you tell [Supervisor]?”
Coworker: “Of course, Mrs. [Customer]. I will let her know right now.”
The lady headed for the restrooms again.
I am sure I had a completely puzzled expression on my face, but we suddenly got a huge crowd all wanting our hot lunches, so I again put it out of my mind.
Much later, as we were beginning our closing procedures and cleaning and restocking, I suddenly remembered the customer’s strange request. Both [Coworker] and [Supervisor] were helping me clean.
Me: “Um… guys, I know I haven’t worked here long, and you both have said that if I have any questions to never be afraid to ask, so umm… can someone please explain what happened earlier and also a few days ago? The nice lady who likes to announce to us that she needs the restroom? What is that all about?”
Coworker: *Laughing* “I knew that was eating you up, [My Name]! Took you long enough to ask!”
Supervisor: *Smiling* Yeah, [My Name]. We knew the curiosity was killing you there!”
They shared a smile, and then [Supervisor] explained. It seems that the customer suffers from epilepsy. She has just moved to the area and found herself shopping in our store for the first time a few months back. She felt a bit off, suspicious that she had an attack coming on. Not knowing anyone in the area or the store, she took herself off to the restroom hoping to have privacy if she did have an attack. The restroom was empty, and she had no sooner entered than she fell to the floor in a fit and banged her head on a sink on the way to the floor.
[Supervisor] happened to be on her way to the restrooms as it was her turn to clean them. She found [Customer], and as she had once been a nurse, she did her best to make [Customer] comfortable and called for an ambulance. She stayed with that lady while she came around and reassured her that she would be fine and that it was no trouble. [Supervisor] even accompanied [Customer] to the hospital, stayed with her, and made sure she got home safe once she was released.
The two had since become friends. A little arrangement they had come up with was that if [Customer] was shopping and needed the restroom, she always notified [Supervisor] in case the worst happened and it happened again, maybe being alone in the restroom and undiscovered for a while. She always let [Supervisor] know so that if she was gone longer than usual, [Supervisor] would check on her. The restroom is literally right beside our deli counter.
Thankfully, it has never happened again since, and now that I have been let in on the little secret and also have done First Aid courses in the past, [Customer] is quite happy if I am the one to check on her if she is gone longer than usual.
I loved that job and my amazing, caring team of coworkers, and I was sad when I left eventually for a job closer to home. I was presented with a lovely bunch of flowers at the end of my last day, and Mrs. [Customer] even came in to give me a big hug and a box of chocolates with a gorgeous “Thank You” card.
Best. Job. Ever.