Those Classes And Books Didn’t Count On One Intern
CONTENT WARNING: Blood, Childbirth Procedures
I’m soon to be a granddad for the first time as my son is having his first child, and it reminded me of when my first child was born way back. My wife and I did all the childbirth classes, practiced the panting and coaching stuff, and we were feeling good. She was excited just to get the da***ed thing out of her at the end! We had done all the reading and preparation we could. Then, as it happens, D-Day arrived when her water broke at about 4:30 in the morning. No problem; we grabbed her go-bag and headed to the hospital, and we were calm and ready.
It was a hard labour. Contractions started and stopped, she had severe pain (back labour, they called it) and little dilation, and she was not having a good day. Finally, after being induced and getting an epidural, the show started close to midnight. We were in the delivery room, and our doctor asked her if it was okay if an intern — I think that’s what she was — observed. My wife was a medical professional and agreed, though at this point I think she didn’t give a s*** other than wanting the ordeal to be over.
The baby was born, and the doctor asked if I wanted to cut the cord. I declined. He put some plastic ratchet clamp things on and cut it. (It’s not a quick snip like in the movies; it’s tough tissue that crunches as it’s slowly cut through.)
The baby was taken by a nurse for the tests, and my wife was laying there, exhausted, with the rest of the cord still going up into her and attached to the placenta, which essentially had to be “delivered” still. I was hugging her and telling her how much I loved her and what a great job she’d done when the intern stepped in, took the clamp attached to my wife’s end of the cord, and released it.
If you have ever seen the loose end of a garden hose whip around when it’s under pressure, you have some idea of what happened, except it was blood being sprayed everywhere. The poor intern tried to grab the end but she just couldn’t. The doctor stepped in, caught it, and put the clamp back on in a matter of seconds.
I was standing there, sprayed with blood, and I’m sure my eyes were as large as saucers (as were the intern’s). This was not in the childbirth videos we’d watched in the classes.
I remember squeaking in a frantic voice, “Is that supposed to happen?” The doctor said not to worry, but I heard him say quietly to the intern, “I’ll talk to you later.”
The baby was fine, and Mother was fine (she was so drained she didn’t remember the hose incident at all), but I would love to have been a fly on the wall when the doctor had his talk with the intern.
If there’s a moral to the story, I guess it’s that if you’re a noob thinking, “What would happen if I do this?” it’s maybe best to ask first.
I’m happy with the outcome: a great son and a strangely funny story.