Uncaring Drivers Will Drive You Crazy
I live in a trailer park that has a horseshoe-styled driveway. Due to three of us parents having children younger than ten and the fact that the driveway is extremely icy in the winter, the bus comes up the driveway to pick up all the children.
I got to be one of the luckier ones that has an indoor porch, so as a result, last year, my daughter would wait on the porch when it rained or snowed and I’d get wet by waiting for the bus so she wouldn’t. The bus driver last year didn’t mind waiting a minute for her to run down the driveway and onto the bus, as she was usually seen walking toward me. However, this one…
Me: “[Daughter]! The bus is coming!”
Daughter: “Coming, Mama!”
My daughter got as far as the front of the car, clearly seen by the driver… and the driver drove right by us. Shocked, I took her by the hand, and we rushed to the trailer next door where she was able to board the bus.
Daughter: “I was on the porch! You saw me!”
Driver: “You should have been at the end of your driveway. I don’t care if you were by the vehicle. I’m not waiting.”
Me: “Really? She was waiting on the porch so she wouldn’t get cold and wet!”
Driver: “Not my problem.”
Me: “Would you make your children wait in this downpour?”
Driver: *Pauses* “No.”
Me: “Then why the h*** should mine?! She will be waiting under a roof during rain and snow! I will not let her get cold and wet just because you think you’re in a d*** race!”
During this, another parent had rushed her children toward the bus as it had been done to her, as well. Their trailer was off the horseshoe part of the drive and further in the back, and her children were even younger.
Parent: “Man, if you weren’t giving her grief, we would have missed the bus.”
Me: “You can wait two seconds for my child to walk from the porch to the end of the drive. Don’t ignore her again! I will report you!”
She turned away from me angrily as the other two children boarded the bus. When the doors shut, she looked like she was about to take off angrily.
Me: “YOU HIT THAT GAS AND SEND THEM KIDS FLYING, I’LL HAVE YOUR A**!”
She slowly pulled away, clearly angry at being called out. I turned to the other parent, who was laughing.
Parent: “She does it to us, too. She’ll see my youngest running fast as he possibly can and then take off.”
Me: “I get the feeling she’s not gonna last the entire year. I wish the other driver was back.”
I normally don’t confront, but when it comes to my child, apparently, I have a disappearing backbone.