(I work in a large research laboratory. Coworker #1 is more than a little socially awkward and has that reputation around the laboratory. I and Coworker #2 have just had a set-back on our research in a disease that we are both very passionate about making strides on, and it’s a project that our boss is really pushing. Coworker #2 is feeling somewhat discouraged and I’m trying to comfort him. Coworker #2 and I are also known for being extremely close, both personally and professionally.)
Me: “It’s okay. It doesn’t always work out. We knew that when we became research scientists.”
Coworker #2: “I know. I’m just not feeling optimistic about this right now. Besides, [Boss] is going to ticked, and now we can’t even meet the publication due date he wanted us to.”
(This is when Coworker #1 walks into our lab.)
Me: “Don’t worry. We’ve got months before the due date. We’ll think of something.”
Coworker #1: “Oh, my goodness! You guys are having a baby! That’s so exciting! I didn’t know you were… you know… with each other. Oh, I’m so excited that you’re having a baby!”
(We both stare at Coworker #1 for a bit.)
Coworker #2: “Yes. That’s exactly it. [My Name], the single, virgin, Mormon girl, and [His Name], the gay man, are having a baby together.”
Coworker #3: *who is doing their own work on another bench* “Well, we are scientists. We could make it happen if you wanted.”