We all have that god-awful coworker who no one wants to work with, right? Mine takes on too much responsibility and then expects me to do it. Because she is bad at communicating, she just assumes I will do it and know everything. She decided she wanted to take over interns from me. Fine, great. Less work for me. I gave her a budget in March with a list of tasks and sent her on her merry way.
However, because she is really bad at communicating, she did not convey anything to the interns at all. It is now May, a full two months after, and one of them contacts me the day before he is scheduled to start. I am not sure why he would contact me as we haven’t interacted before, but he is friendly with past interns who were under me. I direct him to my coworker who is in charge of him, copying her on the email.
The intern also emails her asking about his schedule. She sends some superfluous email out where she tries to lay the blame on me for everything not being set up. He doesn’t have a computer. We don’t have a game plan. The works. I helpfully tell her I have a spare computer that I am placing on her desk for her. I also forward her the proposal that is already approved by our manager — the same proposal I sent her two months prior and she told me on three separate occasions she had read. Our manager is copied on this.
My coworker then tries to call me about “interns things.” I ignore her because, well, it isn’t my job, and I don’t know what she told him. I also know there is a real chance she will yell at ME for the audacity of the intern emailing me, despite, you know, never having a conversation with him before right that second.
Nevertheless, I do contact our manager to let him know what happened. He tells me to shoot the intern an email to come in anyway and I go home peacefully knowing that it is not my problem.
This exchange happens the next day.
Coworker: “Did you see the email I sent you in regards to [Intern]?”
Me: “Yes, and [Manager] was supposed to call you about it. Did he not?”
Coworker: “So, you didn’t see my email?”
Me: “I saw it. [Manager] said he would call you about it so I didn’t feel the need to respond.”
Coworker: “You know, you really need to be a better communicator. We are a team. We are all in this together. We need to support each other.”
Me: *Pause* “Yes, and I just told you that [Manager] should’ve called you about it.”
Coworker: “About what? You need to tell me about what. You cannot say, ‘it.’”
Me: *Internally rolling my eyes* “The email that you sent about the intern.”
Coworker: “Oh. Well, you need to be better at communicating.”
Me: *Thinking* “And you need to be better at listening.”
This woman really just approached me to pick a fight so she could blame me for her not being prepared with two months of planning. Later, she tried to insist I was in charge of interns, but luckily, the manager shut that down real quick.