I have severe arthritis and walk on two canes. I am only sixty-two, but my hair is white. I have lost a lot of weight. It is fair to say I present as elderly and frail.
My friend has driven me to a large medical complex to see a specialist. We park under a huge portico while she goes in to get a wheelchair for me. It is a brisk winter day, and I am sitting on the passenger side in the closed car, holding my canes, waiting for my friend to return.
In the side-view mirror, a sturdy, thin woman around seventy years old has emerged from I don’t know where. She is stomping along in a fur coat and pair of high-heeled boots, swinging a sacral support pillow. She looks mad, and I casually wonder what her story might be.
Suddenly, she is there, rapping on my window. I can’t lower the window, so I open the door an inch.
Me: “Yes?”
Angry Woman: “You are in the way! You can’t stop here. This is a place for people who need help getting in and out. You are in the way!”
There is room for three cars behind us, if anyone else were present, which no one is.
Me: “I am a person who needs help. My friend is getting a wheelchair.”
[Angry Woman] makes a face like she has just smelled something horrible and literally says:
Angry Woman: “Hmmph!”
She turns on her heel and stomps toward the building entrance. At the door, she has to wait for my friend to come out the door with the wheelchair, and she shouts at her.
Angry Woman: “Is that your car?”
Friend: *Confused* “Um, yes?”
Angry Woman: “You’re in the way!”
And she stomps into the building.
As my friend helps me out of the car, she asks:
Friend: “What on Earth is her problem?”
Me: “I don’t have a clue, but you don’t have to see that support pillow she is carrying to know she is butthurt about something.”