It’s a Saturday. I’m in a fairly busy grocery store. I’m waiting in line to check out behind a guy with a relatively small amount of items, so I am hoping it will be quick.
Cashier: “Oh, wow. Looks like someone is planning a special evening!”
At that, I look down and take notice of what the guy in front of me is actually purchasing. It’s a nice bottle of wine, candles, and fresh flowers, as well rack of lamb and all the fixings for what looks to be a very nice and expensive night in.
Man: “Yeah, hoping to surprise my wife tonight with a nice date night.”
Cashier: “Surprise her? This looks like an anniversary- or birthday-level dinner. She probably knows something’s coming.”
Man: “Oh, no, nothing like that. She just had to work on a Saturday, and I was off, so I figured I would just do something out of the blue.”
Cashier: “Oh, so you cheated.”
This is totally out of nowhere, and the whole tone shifts. It goes from light conversation as she scans items to an accusatory tone, and she has slowed down to a near crawl.
Man: “Excuse me?”
Cashier: “You must have cheated or at least done something f***ed up. No man does something like this just because. Give me a break. Men do stuff like this when they feel guilty for cheating. She’ll know — you know that, right? She’ll know some big ‘out of the blue’ gesture is just you feeling bad for something you won’t fess up to yet. Do you know what your wife would actually want instead of your ‘I feel guilty’ dinner? You to actually fess up to what you did so she can move on with her life without your sorry a**!”
The cashier’s volume is escalating through the course of her rant, and the man is just kind of in shock as to how quickly everything has shifted, as is everyone else in line. But the raised voices bring over another employee I presume to be the manager.
Manager: “Hey, guys. Everything going okay over here?”
Man: “Well, not exactly. I’m just trying to check out, and instead of scanning my items so I can pay, we’ve come to halt so I can be yelled at and accused of some pretty serious things.”
Cashier: “Look. I was just telling it how I see it. If he doesn’t want to get called a piece of s***, he shouldn’t act like a piece of s*** cheater.”
Manager: “Okay, that’s about enough. [Cashier], you are on break effective immediately. Go to the back and take your break, and as soon as I am done with this customer, I will be coming to have a long discussion with you.”
The cashier said, “Okay,” and casually walked to the back with this weird attitude as if it was a completely normal interaction and she hadn’t just gone off on a customer. The manager finished up the transaction, apologizing the whole time. I think he gave the man a small discount, and the rest of the transaction went off without a hitch.
I never saw that particular cashier again, though I only go there about twice a month, so that might not mean anything. That was just the most sudden tone shift I had ever seen in a checkout line.