A Snowflake From A Customer And It’s Not An Insult?!
I’m neurodiverse and rather obsessive. Back in my fruit store days, I had a whole system for how I input the produce and another system for how I packed the bags. Someone outside my brain watching me work would often be really confused, but the end result was that I didn’t space out halfway through the sale and forget what I’d done AND I could pack everything so nothing would get damaged.
The only cashiers faster than me were the ones who would throw stuff in pretty much however, so mangoes would go in the same bag as a two-kilo bag of potatoes and have a high chance of getting smushed. As such, when I was told off for going too slow, I’d try to speed up a little, but I refused to compromise on the quality of my work.
We were quickly approaching Christmas and, naturally, the store was getting busier and busier. I was getting chewed out more often for “being slow”, but most of my customers were more grateful for how much care I was taking with all their stone fruit, grapes, and other fragile summer fruit — Christmas in Australia means A LOT of fresh fruit — so I didn’t care.
I was also slightly hampered by my charm bracelet — the old-fashioned kind, not the kind that is more like fancy beads. All those dangly charms with all the orange and onion nets were an extra challenge, but the sensory feedback I got from my bracelet made me happier than the frustration of getting slightly snagged occasionally.
One busy day, a customer approached me with a small charm for my bracelet — a lovely silver snowflake.
Customer: “This is a thank-you for taking such good care of my fruit yesterday!”
I was amazed and tried to give it back at first.
Me: “I can’t take such a gift for just doing my job!”
But she insisted, so I took it, thanking her a dozen times, and I got quite teary, to be honest. Tips are practically non-existent in Australia in restaurants, and they’re unheard of for cashiers.
That charm is still on my bracelet today. Honestly, the snowflake is now one of the worst culprits for getting snagged on things on my whole bracelet, but it never annoys me because I will always remember that customer’s kindness, even if I don’t recall her face! (D*** face blindness!)