This Guy Is Gonna Be A GREAT Dad
I was supposed to pick up my husband at a game store after a “Magic: The Gathering” tournament. Unfortunately, the competition ran long, and due to some confusion with the messaging, I didn’t get the notice until I had already arrived to pick him up and learned it would be another thirty minutes to an hour before he was done. I had my ten-month-old daughter with me.
The game store also does game nights where anyone can come in to play games, so the store was filled with people playing all kinds of board games that evening. In particular, there were three just sitting down at a table before me: a husband and wife and a third man.
Man: “We’re just starting a game that’s supposed to only be thirty minutes long, if you want to join us while you wait.”
Me: “Oh, thanks, but I don’t know the rules.”
Man: “It’s new to all of us, so you could learn with us.”
Me: “That’s a tempting offer, but I doubt [Daughter] would let me sit still that long.”
Wife: “Oh, I don’t think that would be a problem.”
The wife was grinning at her husband as she said this as if it were some inside joke.
Husband: “It would be fine if you just didn’t want to join us, but if you did, we wouldn’t mind your joining. We would all understand if you were a bit distracted because of your daughter; it wouldn’t be a problem.”
Man: “Worse case, if she gets really fussy, you could just drop out; the game still works with three players if you have to leave early.”
Me: “Okay, if you’re sure you don’t mind, I’ll take you up on that, though I doubt she’ll let me finish a game.”
Wife: “Please, we’d love to have you. Maybe I’ll have a better chance of winning now.”
At this, [Man] scooted over one seat, allowing me to sit down so my daughter’s stroller could sit against the empty side of the table where I could reach her. [Wife] was sitting opposite from me, and thus on the other side of my stroller. She turned to her husband and said in an amused-sounding voice:
Wife: “So, I’m guessing we’re trading seats, huh?”
Husband: *To me* “Would you mind if I played a little with your daughter in the stroller?”
Me: “Um, no, I guess not.”
Wife: “Seat swap it is. My master plan to defeat you all has begun!”
My daughter does NOT like being left alone in her stroller; I was certain I would get at best ten minutes before she was too fussy. What I hadn’t anticipated was [Husband] spending the entire game playing with her. Peekaboo, itsy-bitsy spider, tickling, you name it, he did all the baby classics, and my daughter was giggling along with every moment of it.
He seemed to treat the game as secondary to playing with my daughter. He ignored the game board until his turn, and then he would quickly glance at the board and make his play so that each of his turns was as long or slightly shorter than the turns of those who were paying attention to the game. For her part, my daughter seemed a little offended that her new playmate kept disappearing to take a turn every few minutes, but eventually, she caught on that he would be back to play with her soon enough and so tolerated the turn breaks.
The embarrassing part was that, despite his seeming to treat our board game as an afterthought, [Husband] still beat the three of us by a decent margin.
Wife: “Oh, come on! I go out of the way to set up the perfect distraction for you, and you still beat us! You really should let your poor wife win a game one of these days just for the novelty of it, you know!”
It seems [Husband] adored kids and volunteered with them, was a godfather, and was quite eager to start trying for their own kids in a year. Apparently, everyone at the table except me already anticipated that he would spend the entire game playing with and distracting my daughter for me.
Though, it is fairly embarrassing that even distracted he trounced the three of us.