Migraine Aren’t Fun And Games
My husband invited his siblings over for dinner and a game night. I cleaned up the food while they set up a game in the other room. I had a migraine coming on, so I excused myself to lie down. A few minutes passed before I heard them yelling.
Sister: “No, that’s not how you play that card!”
Brother: “Yes, it is! Just read it!”
Me: *Texting my husband* “Please keep it down? My head is pounding.”
Husband: *From the other room* “Guys, lower your voices. [My Name] has a headache.”
A few minutes passed.
Brother: “You’re cheating! Stop!”
Sister: *Louder* “I am not! You—”
Husband: “Stop yelling or you’re leaving! It’s a card game.”
I laughed at the irony of my husband yelling at them to stop yelling, but they quieted down again — for a few minutes.
Brother: “I quit! I’m not playing with her if she—”
Husband: “That’s it. Everybody out.”
Brother: “Why?”
Husband: “You have been warned twice to stop yelling and you continue. Go home.”
Sister: *Still yelling* “Yeah, but—”
Husband: “No. Trust me when I say you do not want [My Name] to come out here with her migraine.”
Brother: *Yelling* “If [Sister] would just play fair, it—”
I stomped out, wrapped in my blanket.
Me: “SHUT. THE. F***. UP. Get out of my house. Get out right now.”
Sister: “No, but—”
Me: “I fed you, I cleaned up after you, you were told repeatedly to keep it down, and you’re still screaming. Shut the f*** up and leave.”
All three of them stared at the table.
Sister: *Quietly* “We’ll be quiet. I’m sorry. Whose turn is it?”
Me: “No, you can come back another day. I’m not dealing with any more sound tonight.”
Husband: “Go on, guys. I’ll clean up the game.”
They both left, heads low. [Husband] cleaned up the game and came to bed with a bottle of water.
The next day, both siblings texted an apology and asked if they could come back for another dinner and game night. They brought pizza, cleaned up after themselves, and kept it down!