Either Way, SOMEONE Is In Denial
CONTENT WARNING: Animal Abandonment, Attempted Animal Injury
My mom is never wrong; if she says two plus two equals five, that’s the right answer. I invited my boyfriend over for dinner. He had met my mom numerous times and knew to believe what she says with caution. After dinner, we were all sitting in the living room when my mom brought up a report she saw on Facebook.
Mom: *Reading the story aloud* “‘Sources say the driver opened the passenger side door and pushed the dog out before leaving. Another person at the rest stop took the dog in and is trying to find the person who abandoned the dog in the first place so that the appropriate charges may be pressed.”
Younger Sister: “If I ever see anyone dropping a dog out a car window, I’m gonna be crawling in that window.”
Mom: “[My Name] almost got arrested over a kitten, remember?”
Younger Sister & Me: “What?!”
Boyfriend: “When?”
Me: “That’s what I want to know. Mom, what are you talking about?”
Mom: “Yeah. It was the guy driving, and you went to the gas station—”
Me: “[Younger Sister] saw a guy swerve toward a kitten on the road and followed him to the [Gas Station] on [Street] to tell him off. He went to the bathroom and called the police, who basically told her to mind her business and left.”
Mom: “No, it was [My Name].”
Me: “No, it was [Younger Sister].”
Mom: “No! It was [My Name]!”
This became a whole argument. My mother kept insisting it was me, even though the gas station in question was a small single-location station that only existed right outside my sister’s college, nowhere near our hometown. We all had to agree to disagree because Mom was refusing to admit she was wrong.
My boyfriend eventually made an excuse and left. He didn’t answer my calls or messages for a few days, and then I got this.
Boyfriend: “Look, you’re really nice, but there are clearly huge parts of your history that you are keeping from me. I’m not comfortable being with someone so aggressive, especially if you’re not honest about it. I wish you the best, and I hope you seek anger management.”
I tried to call to explain AGAIN that it wasn’t true, but he had already blocked my number. I showed my mom and my sister the text. My mom still swore up and down that it was me, not my sister. I don’t know if it’s just her usual stubbornness or that mixed with early signs of dementia (Mom just turned fifty), but it is frustrating.