No-Mato, Please!
I don’t like tomatoes. Tomato-based products (sauces, soups, etc.) are fine, but I just do not like actual tomatoes for some reason. Because I know that I don’t like them, I’m really good about asking for them to be held or removed.
One day, I go to a fast food place near my work that I haven’t been to before; I’ve been to other ones in this chain but never to this specific location. I am in a hurry, so I rush through the order and the pick-up at the drive-thru. When I get back to work and sit down at my desk to eat, I realize there are tomatoes on my burger. I’m not sure if I remembered to ask for no tomatoes, so I shrug it off as my mistake and just toss them.
The next time I go to that location, I clearly ask for no tomatoes, and when I get back to work, there are tomatoes on my burger again. I call the restaurant and ask to speak to a manager.
Me: “Hi. I was just at the drive-thru about thirty minutes ago, and I asked for no tomatoes, but there are three rather large tomatoes on this burger.”
Manager: “Did you tell them you were allergic?”
Me: “Well, no, because I’m not. I just don’t—”
Manager: “If you’re not allergic, then it’s fine.”
Me: “It’s not a matter of allergies. I just don’t like them, so I figure it’s nicer to ask for them to be removed rather than tossing them.”
Manager: “If you’re allergic, then you need to tell us, and you shouldn’t get ketchup.”
Me: “I’m not allergic! The issue is not that I’m allergic. The issue is that I don’t like them, so I don’t see the point in having you guys waste them when all I’m going to do is throw them out.”
Manager: “You’re not allergic; you’re fine.”
I was barely out of high school, and I was a lot more conflict-averse than I am now, so rather than staying in the never-ending loop of “You didn’t say you were allergic, so it’s not our fault” or asking for someone else, I just ended the call. I didn’t go back to that location again, though, and any time anyone at work suggested it, I loudly said no.
Now, being older and wiser and a lot more willing to stand up for myself, I probably would have gone back in and spoken to someone or possibly gone over their heads to corporate. But I still don’t understand why “I asked for no tomatoes, and you gave me tomatoes” put that manager in a “You’re not allergic, so it doesn’t matter” loop.