A Monolith Of Grandmas
My maternal grandma, who lived with us, was seventy when I was born. She was in poor health, and I always remember her as an old woman with removable teeth prosthesis, always wearing a scarf on her head when outside and walking with a stick. So, of course, that was my idea of a grandma. Imagine my astonishment when a friend in preschool told me her Grandma would pick her up when she got out of work. Like, what? Grandmas don’t work; they’re retired!
But I wasn’t the only one with fixed ideas. In the early stages of elementary school, I talked in front of the class about my typical weekend. I said we’d go to our “weekend house”, which was actually my Mum’s birth house in a small village, with a big garden. We lived in a flat in a town.
The teacher corrected me.
Teacher: “You’re going to visit your grandma and grandpa.”
Many people in my school had grandparents in a village, living in houses, as opposed to the blocks of flats most of my classmates grew up in. Both of my grandpas died before I was born, and Grandma went to our “weekend house” with us, but the teacher didn’t like it. So, then I said:
Me: “We are going to [Village] and to visit our Grandma.”
This was technically true because we stopped on the way to see my paternal grandmother, who lived in another town — and in a block of flats, as well. But for the teacher, apparently, all grandmothers lived in villages, in houses with gardens.