I am working in the early hours of Saturday morning at my bagel shop (around 7:30), and I am helping in the drive-thru. Our location has an obnoxious dinging noise whenever a car comes through, and I swear I hear it in my sleep. I hear that annoying ding and I start the transaction.
Me: “Good morning, how may I help you?”
Customer: “Can I have a minute?”
Me: “Sure, take your time!”
She only takes ten seconds, which makes me happy.
Customer: “Okay, I’m ready!”
Me: “Okay!”
Now, with most normal people, when I say, “Okay!” in a sunshiney voice, they get the idea that I’m anticipating them ordering. Not this lady.
She just sits there and doesn’t respond to me. This is by far one of my biggest pet peeves working at my job.
After another ten or so seconds, I ask her:
Me: “What do you want?”
I don’t say this with any attitude or sarcasm. I just ask her what she wants so I can move the line along.
Customer: “A plain bagel.”
When someone says this, we’re trained to say, “With nothing on it?” because a lot of the time, people think that we’re mind readers and that we know what they’re thinking. We only say this when someone says a bagel and then says nothing after that. That’s what this lady does.
Me: “…With nothing on it?”
Customer: “You didn’t let me finish! A plain bagel, not toasted, with cream cheese.”
Me: “Oh, okay, so a plain bagel, not toasted, with cream cheese. Can I get you anything else today?”
I’ll admit that I am extremely sarcastic when talking to her at this point because she is being rude.
Customer: “Yes, I want someone else to help me.”
Me: “I’m sorry, that’s not possible right now. Everyone else is busy.”
Customer: “Well, I want someone else. I really don’t want you helping me.”
Me: “Well, that’s too bad because no one else is available, so you’re stuck with me.”
She finishes her order and drives up. She comes up to the window, gets her order, and asks the guy if she can speak to the manager.
Coworker: “Okay, but you were just talking to her.”
Customer: “You’re the manager, and you were just taking my order?”
Me: *With a big smile* “Yup!”
Customer: “You were extremely rude! ‘What do you want?’ That’s so rude!”
Me: “I’m sorry you feel that way, but I was just trying to get your order, and you weren’t answering me.”
Customer: “You need to speak to people better.”
Me: “I really don’t see the issue here. I was trying to help you, and you weren’t answering, so I said what I had to in order to get the answers from you. If you don’t like that, I have nothing else to say about it.”
Customer: “You were really rude!”
Me: “I’m not worried about it. Are you worried about it?”
Customer: “You should be. You were really rude!”
Me: “Oh, well, I’m not.”
She kept yammering on.
At this point, I was grinding coffee, which happens to be next to the window. I wasn’t actually standing there talking to her because I knew that this wasn’t a situation that I needed to or wanted to defuse. I just let her talk while the window was open. Finally, the window automatically closed on her, and I just turned around and walked away.
I’m not sure what her reaction was, but I like to imagine she was stunned that her complaining was cut off and no one was going to engage with her anymore.
It’s times like these when I’m glad I’m a manager. People try to pull nonsense with me, and I just tell them no. They have no choice but to accept it.