Might Want To ‘Sit’ For This One

| NJ, USA | Learning | April 28, 2015

(As the end of the school year is coming up, all the children who are going to kindergarten have to have assessments. Since I am the owner’s daughter, I am responsible for administering them. The tests generally go routine except with one girl.)

Me: “Okay, [Girl], this is our last game, okay? I’m going to say a word, and you’re going to say another word that rhymes with it, okay?”

Girl: “Okay!”

Me: “So, for starters, what rhymes with cat?”

Girl: “Um… bat!”

Me: “Good! Okay, what rhymes with sit?”

Girl: “Tit!”

(Since ‘tit’ is not necessarily an inappropriate word, I’m stumped on what to say.)

Me: “Uh… good, good. That… is a word that rhymes with… sit.”

Day-Careless

| CA, USA | Right | January 7, 2015

(I run a daycare for folks around my town. On this particular day one of them calls me up saying they’ve run into some financial troubles and won’t be able to pay me this week. After crunching some numbers I decide I can take the hit to my budget and tell them I’ll still look after their child. The next week I add the amount they owe to their total when they come to pay me for my services.)

Mother: “Hey, why is the fee double what it usually is?”

Me: “You weren’t able to pay last week as you said, so I added what you owe to this week’s total.”

Mother: “What I owe? I said I wasn’t able to pay that!”

Me: “Well, now you can.”

Mother: “Uh, no, no that’s wrong. I pay you [total] per week to watch my child and that’s it! If I can’t pay one week that’s just how it goes.”

Me: “Uh… ma’am, if that were the case I wouldn’t be able to stay in business. You wished to make use of my service; I need you to pay for it.”

Mother: “And so I am. The same amount I pay every week and nothing more! I run my own business, too, and I know that if you want to hang onto a customer you should learn to respect when they are having problems and not bleed them dry!”

Me: “Be that as it may, you still owe me for last week.”

Mother: “NO, I DON’T! Now go get my son for me and stop being so rude!”

(After she leaves I take a few hours to cool down and think over what to do about this. Finally I pick up the phone.)

Me: “Hello, it’s [My Name] again. Just wanted to let you know that I thought over what you said and decided that if you aren’t going to pay for me watching your child then don’t bother bringing him to the daycare anymore.”

Mother: “WHAT!? No, you have to look after him! I’ll be terribly inconvenienced if you don’t!”

Me: “Too bad. I have a business to run. too, and I can’t keep it going if the customer expects me to work for free. If you aren’t going to pay what you owe for the services rendered then you’re going to have to find someone else to watch your son.”

Mother: “How dare you! This is going to terrible inconvenience me! Do you know how much the other places charge in this town!? You can’t do this! You can’t—”

(I hung up while she was still screaming. She still turned up the next day demanding I watch her kid, then left when I refused, screaming some more about how unprofessional I was and how I just lost a good customer.)

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Not Sue-table Clients

| San Diego, CA, USA | Right | December 5, 2014

(I am giving a tour of my home daycare to prospective clients.)

Mother: “This is quite lovely. I really like your outdoor space and the type of toys you have for the children in the playroom. I was wondering, how do you deal with discipline?”

Me: “Well, it depends on the type of behavior I am dealing with. I mostly redirect, show appropriate behavior, and say no when I have to. I only resort to time-out when a child really needs to cool down and their actions are directly affecting the other kids.”

Father: “Well, how do you deal with hitting or biting?”

Me: “Some children, not all, will go through a phase or episodes. It’s a matter of getting them to understand it hurts, showing them alternate ways to express frustration, anger, or excitement, and also teaching the other children to say no firmly. As hands-on as I try to be, it cannot be always be avoided, but we work through it. Both parties learn from it, in terms of self-control and assertiveness.”

Mother: “The reason we are looking for daycare for our daughter is because at the last place, a little boy bit our daughter. We are both lawyers, and I can assure you that we sued the bejeesus out of that provider.” *disturbing giggle*

Me: *thinking to myself* “And that makes me want to take you on as clients because…?”

Me: *out loud* “Some things will happen. This is a safe space, regularly inspected, but toddlers are learning to handle their feelings and emotions and sometimes it manifests in physical ways. I am here to guide them and show them better ways. I cannot condone litigious responses to fairly normal occurrences that cannot possibly be prevented, though they can be corrected. Are you fine with being sued if your little girl hits another child at the park?”

Father: “She would NEVER do that. If she so much as grabs food without asking first she gets a spanking, so I can guarantee you she’s not going to physically attack another kid.”

Me: “…”

(Needless to say, I made the rest of the tour as brief as I could and when they emailed me to ask about enrolling, I turned them down politely.)

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You Do Not Talk About Baby Fight Club

, | GA, USA | Friendly | October 7, 2014

(My daughter is learning how to stand. Last week at daycare she pulled herself up using a chair back. The chair fell on her and bruised her forehead. This morning she was using a toy shelf and hit her head on it, giving herself another bruise on the forehead.)

Friend: “What’s up?”

Me: “Not much. [Daughter] had another run in with furniture.”

Friend: “How bad?”

Me: *sends pic*

Friend: “Why do you keep putting her in baby fight club?”

Me: “Because she always wins. That smile isn’t the face of a loser!”

Better Luck Next Time

, | Austin, TX, USA | Friendly | October 6, 2014

(My son goes to a speech therapist in a small business park. There is also an exclusive daycare whose parents frequently park in spaces reserved for the other businesses. They also have a row of parking in front of the daycare reserved for drop-off until 10 am. I observe a woman parking in front of the daycare and walking her child into the speech clinic as a daycare parent is walking past. Note that it’s 2 pm in the afternoon.)

Daycare Parent: “Hmph! SOME people obviously don’t know how to READ!”

Speech Parent: *with a smile* “And SOME people obviously can’t tell TIME.”

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