We Hope She Transitions Into A Nicer Human Being
In Ireland, we do a thing called “Transition Year”, a year in school where fifteen- and sixteen-year-olds do work experience rather than study for tests. When I was sixteen, I did my work experience in a childcare facility for a couple of weeks, and everyone was super nice, apart from one mother.
I had a suspicion that [Mother] didn’t really like me that much, and I didn’t know why. She did small, passive-aggressive actions toward me, like refusing to talk to me unless absolutely necessary — and even then she was rude — and going out of her way to make work harder for me.
Then, one day, [Mother] was collecting her daughter. As she was just about to leave the nursery, her daughter asked:
Daughter: “Mammy, why does [My Name] have a hand like a crab?”
I am slightly disabled in my left hand. I was born with no fingers but got two toes stitched onto it. I usually don’t mind when kids ask this; they’re very curious, and I just tell them that I was born with it, but it doesn’t affect me in any way. I’m still me.
Anyway, after her daughter asked, [Mother] proudly and snarkily replied in a louder tone so I could hear it at the other end of the hallway.
Mother: “That’s because [My Name] spent too long on his iPad and never ate his veggies!”
And she shut the door of the facility.
Unfortunately, it was my last day working, so I couldn’t do much, but I did tell the manager the whole story. (She already knew [Mother] didn’t like me.) I don’t know what happened to [Mother] or if she got kicked out of the nursery. Hopefully, she did, though.