My mother-in-law is her own “boss” at one of those triangular-shaped companies. She has tried for years to get my husband and me to enroll. Every time we say no, she comes back with a new reason why we should change our minds.
I go out to get the mail one day and see a package on our porch. It is from [Company] in my name. I think about calling my mother-in-law to find out what is happening, but my husband suggests we call [Company] directly.
Customer Service: “Hi, thanks for calling [Company]. Can I get your name for today’s conversation?”
Me: “Hi, this is [My Name].”
Customer Service: “Hello, [My Name]! I see you are a new member. Welcome! How can I help you?”
Me: “Um, yeah, actually… I never enrolled.”
Customer Service: “Oh, well, that’s odd. Let’s take a look here. Can you provide your address on file?”
Me: “[Address].”
Customer Service: “Okay, it looks like you enrolled on [date] under [Mother-In-Law].”
Me: “Yeah, sorry, we didn’t. I have actually said no several times.”
Customer Service: “Oh. Well… I’m not sure how this happened, then.”
Me: “I’m guessing [Mother-In-Law] enrolled me. I’d like to cancel.”
Customer Service: “Oh, are you sure? We have lots of great offers coming up for the holidays.”
Me: “I’m sure. Thank you.”
Customer Service: “Okay, well, we’re sorry to see you go. Let me get you connected with the cancellation team.”
While I’m on hold, my husband’s phone rings. It’s his mother.
Husband: “Hello?”
Mother-In-Law: “Why did I just get an email saying you’re cancelling your account?”
Husband: “Why did you sign us up without our consent?”
Mother-In-Law: “You need it!”
Me: “No.”
My phone picks up.
Cancellation: “Hi there, you’ve reached the cancellation department. If you’re sure you want to cancel, I can help you with that.”
Mother-In-Law: “No! Do not cancel! It’s a mistake!”
Cancellation: “Uh… I’m sorry, I don’t understand. You do want to cancel, or you don’t?”
Me: “Yes.”
Mother-In-Law: “No!”
Me: *To my husband* “Hang up.”
He hangs up without saying goodbye.
Cancellation: “Are we… okay?”
Me: “Yes, it’s fine. My mother-in-law signed us up without our consent.”
Cancellation: “Oh! So… Let me see how to do this. I’m guessing all the security questions are about her, not you.”
Husband: “I can guess at them.”
Cancellation: “Oh, okay, sure. Let’s try that.”
The entire time we are talking to cancellations, his mother is texting that we cannot cancel, it’s a mistake, etc. My husband gets all the security questions right without hesitation.
Cancellation: “Okay, I can finalize your cancellation here. I’m so sorry this happened.”
Husband: “Thank you for working with us.”
Cancellation: “You’re all set. Have a great day, guys.”
For the next week, we are hounded with calls and messages from [Mother-In-Law], alternating between begging us to change our minds and berating us for stealing food from her mouth and being selfish. Then, one quiet afternoon, [Mother-In-Law] barges into our house.
Mother-In-Law: “I hope you’re happy, [My Name]!”
Me: “I was.”
Mother-In-Law: “[Company] cancelled my business because of you!”
Husband: *Gently* “You need to go.”
Mother-In-Law: “No, no, this is her fault. I am going to sue you for emotional damage and financial impact!”
Me: *Shrugs* “Okay.”
She clearly expected a different reaction.
Mother-In-Law: “And…and you will pay!”
Me: “Since you’ve threatened legal action, any further contact can go through our lawyers.”
Mother-In-Law: “But—”
Husband: “Mom, just go.”
He reached out to usher her out the door, not touching her. She backed out the door, stumbled at the step, but recovered without falling. I closed and locked the door before she could do anything else. She did try to sue us, but when we countered with her identity theft, she backed down. We are currently in no contact and quite happy about it.