I’m doing my groceries one day, trying to decide which candy I’ll allow myself to buy this week, when I hear the very familiar screeches of a toddler not being allowed to put heaps of candy in his mother’s shopping basket. Mum just calmly keeps telling him no. He drops onto the floor, flailing his arms and legs and screaming like a banshee.
It isn’t too busy, but quite a few people stop and stare disapprovingly. The mother seems completely unfazed. She puts her basket on the floor, out of the way. She then sits cross-legged next to the boy, gently puts a hand on his belly, and starts singing a happy little made-up tune in a beautiful, soft voice.
Mum: “There was a little monkey boy making lots of noise, a little noisy monkey boy, making lots of noise. The people stopped and stared and put their hands over their ears. Oooooh, noisy little monkey boy, what’s gotten into yououou…”
She keeps singing similar words in that cheerful melody, and to my great surprise, the little boy calms down in less than a minute. He takes a deep breath, sits up, and then gives his mother a big hug.
Mum: “Hey, [Boy], there you are! I thought there was a little monkey here for a second.”
Boy: “I am not a monkey.”
Mum: “You’re not? Really? What are you, then?”
Boy: “I am a very, very big boy.”
Mum: “You are? How big are you?”
The boy proudly puts up three little fingers.
Boy: “This much!”
Mum: “Well. That is very big, indeed.”
There’s a short silence.
Boy: “Mummy? Do you think I hurt all the ears?”
Mum: “I think you may have, a little. That was mighty loud, after all. You have a big boy voice!”
The boy stands up and loudly declares, to no one in particular:
Boy: “I AM VERY SORRY FOR ALL THE HURTY EARS. I DIDN’T MEAN TO; I WAS JUST A BIT ANGRY FOR A LITTLE BIT, BUT I AM NOT ANYMORE. SORRY, AND THANK YOU.”
His mum stands up and picks up her basket.
Mum: “Thank you for saying that. I understand why you are upset about not getting all the sweets. We need our money today for potatoes and spinach. Your daddy is looking forward to eating potatoes and spinach tonight, and so am I. We will all choose one bag of sweets on Saturday when Daddy has time to come with us. All right?”
The boy takes his mother’s hand.
Boy: “All right, Mummy.”
Mum: “Is the monkey boy gone now?”
Boy: “He went back up in the trees, Mummy.”
Mum: “All right. You might not need him again today. But you can call him whenever you feel angry again.”
Boy: “Maybe next time I can sing a song to calm him down.”
Mum: “You are big and smart!”
Very original, affectionate, and effective parenting right there! I was honestly a little touched.
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