(I am working in the electronics section of the toy store. A little kid is playing the video games we have out to demo. We assume that a man that is also in this section is his father. The man comes up to the register to buy his items.)
Child: “GOD F****** D*** IT!”
(My coworker and I look at each other, shocked at his language.)
Coworker: “Sir, is that your child?”
Customer: “That isn’t my kid. If he was, I would drag him out of the store.”
Me: *walks up to the child* “Are your parents in the store?”
Child: “My mom knows where I am.”
Me: “That’s good, but are your parents in the store? We don’t allow parents to leave their children alone in different departments; may I ask your mother’s name?”
(After having to talk to the rude child, I finally get the mother’s name. We call her to our department and she storms over as fast as she can, annoyed that we won’t let her leave her child in our department alone. My manager also comes down to the department, knowing there will probably be an angry mother yelling at us.)
Mother: “I don’t understand what the big deal is; he’s here playing video games like I told him to!”
Me: “I am sorry, ma’am, but we had no way of knowing this, and our store policy states that you cannot leave your kid alone in our store; he has to be with his parent. Plus, your child was swearing in our store around other children. We had no way of knowing if you had just left him in our store and walked around the mall, or if you had just abandoned him here.”
Mother: “Where does it say that? I think you just made it up so you wouldn’t have to look after my child in this department.”
Manager: “We have signs set up at every entrance, and we have signs set up all throughout the store. You are standing right beside one. I am sorry, ma’am, but my employees are not your personal babysitters. If it were me instead of [My Name], I would have called someone to report an abandoned child, which is what we are supposed to do in an event like this.”
Mother: “That’s a pile of horses***! My child is staying here, and I am continuing my shopping.”
(The mother then proceeds to turn around to continue her shopping.)
Manager: “I’m sorry, miss, but you are ignoring our store policy, and leaving your child unattended. If you do not take your child with you, then we have no choice but to assume you are abandoning your child, so you can either take your child with you as you continue shopping, or you and your child can leave our store and you will not be welcome back.”
(The mother ignored my manager and left her child in the electronics section. We actually had to call someone because she left our store and was gone for more than two hours walking through other stores in the mall. We never saw her or her child in our store again.)