Withering Plants And Withering Relationships
We have an outdoor garden, which my mother loves, but she doesn’t always have the time to care for it properly, so it falls on me to do so.
A common reason potted plants can die is, surprisingly, overwatering. This is why I inspect the soil daily and skimp on watering for the day if it’s clear that the soil is still moist and needs a bit of drying.
Enter my elder sister, who I suspect is mostly doing this for a power trip, though I won’t discount simple ignorance completely. I won’t get into all my grievances with her, but in summary, I’ve been told by my parents to do as she says, purely because she’s older than me and therefore always in the right. I’ve explained to her why I don’t water every day. So, of course, she took it upon herself to water on my “off days”, despite clear evidence of the plants beginning to die of root rot.
At some point, she straight up told me, right when I was about to have breakfast, to drop it and water the plants immediately, and every single day, despite me watering them just the day before.
Sister: “It’s your duty, not mine. Water them every single day. They are not getting enough water, which is why they’re dying.”
Me: “The soil is still quite damp and a rich brown. They actually need drying a bit.”
Sister: “Don’t assume anything. That’s just the surface.”
Parents: “Do as she says. We’ll keep your food warm.”
At that very moment, I stopped caring. I’ve since begun to do exactly that every day. Rain or shine, the soil will get its fill, even as the plants begin to wilt and wither from overwatering, begging to be dried out for a bit.
At some point, they asked a professional for a second opinion, who suggested overwatering as the cause of the sudden malady inflicted on the garden. They either did not believe him or didn’t catch that detail, but they did swap out the soil of the potted plants. Of course, they’re still being watered every day, with predictable results.