Made A Real Mess Of That Situation
(I live in on-campus housing with two other girls. We aren’t the best of friends, but we get along decently enough. It is almost the end of my final year [though both my roommates will be there another year] when we get a summons for a meeting with the campus housing commission about the state of our apartment. Admittedly, cleaning had gotten away from us a bit, but we haven’t received any notification that it was considered unacceptable by the school.)
Me: “So guys, let’s just emphasize in the meeting that it was late in the year, so cleaning had gotten away from us, and that if we HAD received the warnings that were supposedly given to us, we’d have gotten right on it. I’ll take responsibility for the kitchen and my part of my room when we get done, since those are my areas. Sound fair?”
Roommate #1: “Yeah, sounds good. It is pretty messy after all. ”
Roommate #2: “No problem.”
(At the meeting, the mediator asks me my side of the story and I say exactly that. But then she gets to my roommates…)
Roommate #1: “Well, I’m always staying at my boyfriend’s apartment, so I’m hardly ever there to make a mess!”
Roommate #2: “And I pretty much stay in my room, so anything else isn’t me!”
(I’m staring at them both aghast at this point – they are essentially trying to blame the entire problem on me.)
Interviewer: *seeing my expression* “Well… I know that [My Name] is graduating in a month or so, but I really doubt that she managed to make all that mess by herself. [My Name], do you use the living room much?”
Me: “N-no, I watch TV on my computer, and I eat at my desk in the kitchen. I don’t have a reason to be in the living room.”
Interviewer: “That’s what I thought…” *turns to my roommates* “So, ladies, there isn’t really anything I can do to Miss [My Name] as she’ll be gone next year, but you two should know that if the apartment isn’t properly clean once you move out that there WILL be consequences, right?”
(I didn’t speak to them for the rest of the day, when move out time came I took care of my part of the apartment, but I didn’t lift a finger to help them with their mess!)