(The son of one of my neighbours is getting married, and I’ve promised to help out at the dinner service afterwards. They’ve also asked me to see if I have any friends that also can help. I ask around and find one friend who is available that day.)
Me: “Great! The information is a bit scarce at the moment, but I’ll call you the instant I hear anything else! They also said that we’d get a more extensive list a bit closer to the wedding.”
Friend: “All right! Sounds good.”
(A few weeks pass, and two days before the wedding, I, my friend, and some friends of the groom’s mother are called over to the neighbor to get more information on what needs to be done. The list turns out to be VERY long, much longer than any of us expected, especially since there are only four of us. As we leave, my friend speaks up.)
Friend: “I had no idea there’d be so much stuff to do!”
Me: “Me neither. Things are a bit disorganized, I know, but at least we’ll get paid.”
Friend: “Dude… If I’d known there’d be that much s*** that had to be done, I NEVER would’ve agreed to help you.”
(I find this rather rude of her to say, but I let it slide. The wedding day comes, and I drive by my friend’s house to pick her up for the preparations. We’ve worked for a while when she comes up to me.)
Friend: *somewhat nonchalantly* “Uh, [My Name]? I forgot to bring my migraine medicine today, so I can’t stay all night. I’ll stay until I feel it coming.”
Me: “Um, okay. It can’t be helped, I guess…”
(She ended up only staying for just under half the service, leaving me and the other 2 recruits with much more work to do for the rest of the party, and I even had to call in my parents to help us with the dishes. I don’t want to believe that she “forgot” her medication on purpose, but considering that she’d told me two days before that she would’ve refused to help out if she’d known the amount of work that was expected, it’s a bit too much of a coincidence. At least she refused half her salary…)