Age Gap Mishap

(I’m with a large social group, with 25 people attending of 300 members, so most of us haven’t met another except the two leaders. We’re discussing the best ages to date your partner and get married. Most of us are in their 20-30s; I’m 19 and they know it.)

Me: “I’m not interested in dating yet. I would only date someone over 40.”

(Most the group is horrified, some curious. I clarify.)

Me: “When I am also over 40. I want a career that takes me around the world, so it’s better for me to find love when I’m older.”

(Huge understanding sigh all around.)