Unfiltered Story #223195

I work as a bartender at a restaurant that sits on a lake. As summer turns into fall our customers turn from party lake goers, that are pretty laid back; to mostly regulars. Most are bearable but I have one that is absolute obnoxious and likes to sexually harass the staff. His “friends” even admit they refuse to bring the women they’re dating around him because he’s such an arrogant pig. Let me start off with this story;

One night a middle aged man comes in with his two daughters:

Customer: “Man, that’s a lucky guy…”

Me: “ummm, just so you’re aware, those are his daughters and they’re about 14 years old….”

He regularly is known to get buzzed, gets cut off, then proceeds to berate the staff about how we’re out of line for cutting him off and offering an Uber.

This all came to a head recently; this is the man who regularly insists we’re going to have sex with each other, that I should drive him home, and asks me to flash him while bartending. Finally he was asked to respect me. Que his melt down:

Customer; “ya know, you’re a real f***king idiot. You should never be allowed to bartend and I don’t even remember saying those things to you because I was drunk so they shouldn’t even matter. I take care of you when I’m here!”

You can bet your ass I told this man that being drunk is never his excuse to sexually harass anyone. He walked his tab and stormed out of the bar. I had so many people apologizing for him and offering to pay his tab.

The sad thing is; he’ll come back and tell me he was drunk so he should be granted forgiveness. He doesn’t know I’ll refuse to serve him any longer. A few dollar tip is never worth the sexual harassment from that man.