You Can’t Say You Weren’t Warned!
Years ago, I adopted a little black cat. She was a big lover but did not come declawed and, at the time, did not suffer fools nor enjoy being held by anyone but me and my then-boyfriend.
We took her to a vet’s office to have a checkup that involved having blood drawn, getting some vaccines, and the like. It was our first time going to this vet as we were new to the area.
Our first impressions weren’t great. The vet himself kept calling my clearly female cat a boy, no matter how many times we corrected him. There was also a vet tech who, from the first second we met her, clearly didn’t want to be there and made it everyone else’s problem.
Finally, toward the end of the intake visit where we were going to leave the cat and come back after everything was done, the vet tech opened the carrier and took my cat out, picking her up to hold her.
Me: “Hey, uh, she doesn’t like to be held. I would put her down if I were—”
Tech: “Oh, nonsense! She’s such a sweet little baby.”
The sweet little baby in question was still in shock about where she was, but I could see that was wearing off.
Me: “No, seriously, she’s not declawed, and you’re going to want to put her down.”
Tech: *Snapping* “It’s fine! I handle cats all day; I know what I’m doing!”
My boyfriend and I made eye contact and shared a quiet conversation, and then he just shrugged. “Let her learn,” that look said. So, we headed out to run errands and would come back to get the cat in an hour.
No sooner had we left and gotten two blocks away than I got a call from the vet office.
Me: “Hello?”
Vet: *Sounding a little shaken* “So, umm… Kitty did not like being held, and Kitty did not like getting her blood drawn… I think to proceed we will need to look into sedation options.”
I could clearly hear the vet tech cursing in pain in the background.
Me: *Pauses* How safe is it, and how much will it cost?
The vet gave me all the information about the sedative.
Vet: “…and we’ll discount it.”
We really needed the vaccinations to keep her registered legally in the city, so we gave the go-ahead.
After our errands, we came back to a vet tech with plenty of deep, bandaged gouges taken out of her chest and shoulder who wouldn’t meet our eyes, a vet who advised that the cat was maybe feral, and a very, very high kitty.
We never went back, and my cat has never had another incident at a vet’s office in the seven years since, mostly because all the other vets and techs listen to us.