Item Number One For The “Airing Of Grievances”
My grandma is the type of person that if you tell her something she doesn’t like or doesn’t want to hear, she just ignores you and keeps reiterating that she’s right.
It’s Christmas time, and I am feeling really lazy this year. Since I’m going to be having surgery at the beginning of December, I choose not to put up a tree knowing I probably won’t be able to take it down later with my weight lifting restrictions. I decide to instead just put up a Festivus pole. I don’t really celebrate Christmas to begin with, so it works for me.
Later, my family is holding their pre-Christmas party, and I’m not attending as I’m still recovering, but my grandma and my uncle come up to visit.
Grandma: “I see you didn’t finish putting up your tree. Do you want me to come over and do it?”
Me: “No, I’m not putting up a tree this year. It’s a Festivus pole.”
Grandma: “What do you mean, you’re not putting up a tree? You already have the base up. Don’t worry; I’ll be over to help.”
Me: “No. I’m not putting up a tree. That’s not a base; that’s the finished product.”
Grandma: “But what will you put up instead of that, then?”
Uncle: “Mom, you’re not understanding. This is from Seinfeld. That’s what it’s meant to look like. It’s complete, so stop trying to needle yourself in.”
Later on, my grandma is complaining to my mom about my unfinished tree.
Mom: “She’s not doing Christmas this year. She’s just doing Festivus, so there is no tree.”
Grandma: “But she has a sign up above the unfinished tree saying ‘Merry Christmas’!”
Mom: “I know what sign you’re talking about because she sent us a picture. It clearly says ‘Happy Festivus’.”
Grandma: “No, I know what I saw. I just don’t understand why she won’t let me help her decorate her tree!”
Thankfully, I recovered quickly from my surgery, so I didn’t have to worry about her stopping over all the time to “check up on me”, which was just her trying to finish decorating my tree.